Anybody know the feeling of rejection? Feels like you was kicked in your midsection, when you feel like you simply just lost your best friend, everybody play the game of love, you ride the bench and you start thinking she’s chilling with other men, and you getting jealous, start beefing, and harboring harsh resentment.
Have you ever been in love? Have you ever been in a position where you are in love with your partner not because of anything physical or tangible but just because their happiness makes you even happier? How impossible could life get when the person we are so much in love with gets hurt or their feelings get tampered with?
I don’t know how you can feel but if you ask me… I’ll tell you that this could be the worst feeling ever. A lover, a best friend, a person that makes your life whole and complete, a prayer partner. I mean this is that person you talk to countless number of times a day. Someone you share heart to heart matters. Someone that stands with you in both the good and bad times. Someone that makes you smile even when you don’t want to. What will you do?
How impossible could life get when the only person that shares with you the word of God before you go to bed won’t talk anymore because of unspoken issues of the heart that hurt them so much that they won’t even talk? How difficult could it get for you to miss that special time of the day that you engage one another on your daily devotion? It is just a day and you feel that they have left like forever!
This is the time you realize how special your partner is, how special they have been and the very ‘little things’ you always see as not important; now you start missing them and wish your partner could just get back.
I think if we want to find happiness by finding a life partner, then it’s a little selfish. You should be complete within yourself, so that when you’re in a relationship, you can give out happiness rather than expect it.
How ugly could your life get when they walk out of your life completely, never to be seen again? Sometimes we get so mean with our partners. We all make mistakes but it takes a real man to accept when they make mistakes. We all get a second chance in life so let it go, put it down and hold it up tight for Christ. How mean could we get, to the point where we just end up just thinking about ourselves?
God put them in this world for a purpose and for a specific period of time and therefore as soon as they are alive, they ought to be really appreciated. Nobody can predict the future. You just have to give your all to the relationship you’re in and do your best to take care of your partner, communicate and give them every last drop of love you have. I think one of the most important things in a relationship is caring for your significant other through good times and bad. Nothing is impossible if you believe..
Thank you for reading.